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Unpopular Opinion: “If more black males were emotionally intelligent, more black women would be submissive and fall in line.”


Emotional Intelligence definition:

the capacity to be aware of, control, and express one's emotions, and to handle interpersonal relationships judiciously and empathetically.


My Reasoning:

Due to the lack of male guidance or positive male role models ALOT OF MALES operate out of EMOTION instead of LOGIC. Which not only created an imbalance in the system but also caused a lot of males to lack accountability, and play the blame game which is also an emotion driven deflection. For example when too females argue it’s not about logic 7 out 10 times it’s out of emotion which causes things to escalate quickly. So now imagine that on a scale of man and woman. If we both emotional who being logical in that instance? That’s the males objective honestly to lead you need to to remain the logical one, provide, protect, and make provisions where needed. But how can you do any of those things when you rooted in emotion. If men truly operated as such a woman would have no problem yielding to a man because it’s peace, security and structure in logic but none in chaos and emotion.


1.Not saying men don’t have emotions or can’t speak on how they feel.

2. Not taking a shot a single mothers.

3. Not taking a shot a females who lack accountability.

4. Not talking about promiscuous females.

5. Not talking about dog ass males either.


This was posted by Aundrea

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DE EF
DE EF
Mar 12

Emotional intelligence improves when one has conducted the necessary introspection of the relationship between the ideas and the conclusions(perceptions) involved at anytime(or from a pattern of communication) when an emotion exceeds a level of balance(homeostasis). 


Emotional intelligence is always relevant when conducting commerce. The ability to separate fact from fiction enables discernment at a moment when someone is projecting their presumptions upon you. The recognition of the presumption should enable one to recognize any emotion sensed without letting that emotion distract from the focused objective at hand. The emotional response should support the objective at hand rather than resonate with the emotionally triggered presumption. 


EQ is a skill and I support my Brother's post here referring to male exampling and…


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ONE OF LIFE'S MOST IMPORTANT DECISIONS TO MAKE IS THE MATE YOU CHOOSE!

Man is authoritative / a disciplinarian / a warrior / and a leader of his Tribe. Gaining the proper knowledge necessary to strategically direct all facets of his business (your family is your business) is mandatory and vital to the continuity, strength and success of the posterity.

The only way into this dimension is through a…

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Only doing my duty, Sister Vickie...clarity is the key to unity!!! Thank you for viewing!

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john orlando
john orlando
Feb 26

OK...white cracker John here....(but John does have type "O" blood which is alleged origin is Africa).

So gimmie a chance to show you where I learned about these good questions being raised...fair enough?

The Great School of Natural Science ,GSNS (allegedly the most modern carrier of the ancient beneficial wisdom) I attended for four years. (and passed..lol imagine that!!) anyway they transmit the knowledge , good knowledge of the ages to those who Knock on the door. Lets look at that phrase "knock on the door" ...its found in masonry and in the bible. I didnt know they existed until I quit masonry , pissed off because of their contradictions.

I was the head educator locally and enjoyed taking quote…


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VICKIE WILKS
VICKIE WILKS
Feb 27
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Greetings,

Are you referring to the chapter called Masculine Will and Feminine Desire?

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Adrienne
Adrienne
Feb 25

I think a man needs to be more intelligent than his woman to properly lead her. He needs to study & predict her moves so that he knows how to handle her (kinda like a pimp). I see a lot of men being lazy with this which I think leaves room for errors in a relationship. I think men are tired of having to be strong which I can innerstand that men want to be in their “soft man era” or “passenger prince” but this can make a woman feel like she needs to be strong in the relationship and so she takes the role that her man was supposed to be in. This may coincide with a man’s emotional…

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Adrienne
Adrienne
Feb 26
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I enjoy reading your take on this matter. I also believe a man naturally needs to be dominant & in control in the relationship, not against his woman or to harm her in anyway but for her benefit (weak/insecure men assert the dominance to belittle their woman). God put man as the head for a reason. I wouldn’t respect a man who didn’t walk in his god given dominance but that just might be me.

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I agree for the most part… however there also other circumstances that also play role in the offset behaviors of men today.

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Adrienne
Adrienne
Feb 27
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Would you mind elaborating?

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